I love how you’ve stretched the idea of haggling into life itself. It makes me wonder if sometimes what we call “haggling” is also just appealing to the humanity of others—sharing a story, revealing sincerity, and inviting connection. In those moments, the exchange feels less transactional and more relational, and maybe that’s why it works.
Getting a vendor to a agree to a price 80% off and then walking is absolutely psychotic behavior but I love it 🤣 thanks for sharing Ethan! Love the Bon Iver story, can’t wait for them to go back on tour!
Hello Ethan, you know what - this is indeed a deeply important and timeless question - one that every sincere writer, thinker, or creator eventually asks.
And think of it - even when we think we write only for ourselves, we are often writing towards others - towards the possibility of being understood, towards the hope that our words might one day resonate in someone else’s silence.
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Nothing super noteworthy that comes to mind, but I've always had a bit of a mantra in the back of my mind throughout life and that is: if you don't ask, the answer will always be no.
I love how you’ve stretched the idea of haggling into life itself. It makes me wonder if sometimes what we call “haggling” is also just appealing to the humanity of others—sharing a story, revealing sincerity, and inviting connection. In those moments, the exchange feels less transactional and more relational, and maybe that’s why it works.
Good insight!
Getting a vendor to a agree to a price 80% off and then walking is absolutely psychotic behavior but I love it 🤣 thanks for sharing Ethan! Love the Bon Iver story, can’t wait for them to go back on tour!
Hahah thank you for reading!
Great article and story with a very useful lesson. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks mate!
Hello Ethan, you know what - this is indeed a deeply important and timeless question - one that every sincere writer, thinker, or creator eventually asks.
And think of it - even when we think we write only for ourselves, we are often writing towards others - towards the possibility of being understood, towards the hope that our words might one day resonate in someone else’s silence.
Let's explore together, understand together and learn together - we can be a reader of each other - at least as Substackers.
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Thank you
Appreciate the comment mate! True!
Hey Ethan, love the Bon Iver concert story! Great life lesson here.
Thanks Sean! Do you have any similar stories?
Nothing super noteworthy that comes to mind, but I've always had a bit of a mantra in the back of my mind throughout life and that is: if you don't ask, the answer will always be no.
Truly!